2013年7月8日星期一

Some Rules That You Can Break on the Wedding

Do you kown that the bride need to pay for the wedding cost ?Do you also know that  the bride has to wear the old wedding dresses that from her mother in some countries in Enland?Yes, it's true that  there are a lot of traditions when it comes to weddings, but things have changed too today. Here it is in black and white -- those formally set-in-stone rules that just don't hold up anymore.

The bride's parents pay for the wedding.

New Rule: Every couple funds the festivities in different ways. Maybe your mom and dad want to pay for every single thing, but, unlike in the past where the bride's family was expected to foot the whole bill, they're in no way obligated to now. Grooms' parents and the couples themselves chip in nearly as often as brides' parents do. It just depends on your family's situation. If you'd like your fiancé's parents' help, your husband-to-be will need to ask for it -- not you, and certainly not your parents. Just remember: Whoever pays gets a say. If you know your mother-in-law will insist on an in-church ceremony if she contributes and you've got your heart set on exchanging vows on a sandy beach, you may be happier cutting your guest list than asking her to contribute anything.

You must invite everyone with a guest.

New Rule: If they'll know others, skip the plus-one. It's still polite (and very appreciated!) to invite guests' significant others, but if you're inviting a group of coworkers, for instance, and two or more of them are single, they should have no problem attending solo. Only when guests won't know anyone aside from the couple is it mandatory to let them bring a date. It's kind to invite attendants with guests too (they are shelling out big bucks for their attire!).
Actually,no matter what the rules are,and how they change as the time goes by,what we really need to remember is the tenet of the wedding ,that is love,sincerity,and responsibility.

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